Broker Relationship Management Resources by Elio Kosmidis

This is my complete Broker Relationship Management Playbook — the same frameworks I use to diagnose performance, build capability, and elevate brokers at every level.

30‑Day Turnaround Plan

30‑Day Turnaround Plan for an underperforming broker
From drifting to disciplined. From reactive to reliably productive.


Overall Strategy

The plan runs in four weekly sprints, each with a clear focus:

  • Week 1 – Diagnose & Stabilise
  • Week 2 – Build Capability & Fix Workflow
  • Week 3 – Drive Activity & Speed
  • Week 4 – Lock in Rhythm & Accountability

Week 1 – Diagnose & Stabilise Objectives
  • Identify the real performance blockers.
  • Reset expectations and standards.
  • Build psychological safety and trust.
  • Establish a non‑negotiable weekly rhythm.
Key Actions
  • 1:1 deep diagnostic (60–90 mins)covering activity, pipeline, submission velocity, notes quality, mindset, workflow habits.
  • Shadow 2 appointments to observe fact‑find, rapport, needs analysis, solution positioning, and closing.
  • Set clear expectations for appointments, follow‑up standards, submission timelines, and daily structure.
  • Create a weekly plan including Monday pipeline review, daily follow‑up, Wednesday progression check, Friday accountability review.
Outcomes
  • Broker understands exactly where they stand.
  • You understand the root cause (skill, will, or process).
  • A clear plan is agreed and owned.
  • Broker feels supported, not judged.

Week 2 – Build Capability & Fix Workflow Objectives
  • Lift critical skill gaps.
  • Remove workflow friction.
  • Improve speed and quality.
  • Build confidence through competence.
Key Actions
  • Targeted capability coaching on fact‑find, objections, product selection, submission quality, platform usage.
  • Short roleplay sessions for calls, needs analysis, closing, and document requests.
  • Workflow optimisation including notes quality, document requests, deal progression, time in stage, and rework reduction.
  • Provide 1–2 easy wins such as warm leads, simple refinances, or existing customer reviews.
Outcomes
  • Broker becomes faster, cleaner, and more confident.
  • Submission quality improves.
  • Deals move through the pipeline with less friction.
  • Broker starts to feel momentum.

Week 3 – Drive Activity & Speed Objectives
  • Increase volume of quality appointments.
  • Improve follow‑up discipline.
  • Reduce time from fact‑find to submission.
  • Build momentum through visible wins.
Key Actions
  • Daily activity tracking for calls, follow‑ups, appointments, and submissions.
  • Speed coaching including same‑day follow‑up and 48‑hour submission targets.
  • Pipeline progression blitz to move every deal forward, clear stale deals, and re‑engage warm leads.
  • Confidence building through celebrating wins and reinforcing progress.
Outcomes
  • Activity levels increase.
  • Submission velocity improves.
  • Broker hits early KPIs.
  • Confidence and identity rebuild.

Week 4 – Lock in Rhythm & Accountability Objectives
  • Make new behaviours permanent.
  • Cement a weekly operating rhythm.
  • Shift from “turnaround” to “performance”.
  • Set expectations for the next 90 days.
Key Actions
  • Review the full 30 days to identify improvements and remaining gaps.
  • Set a 90‑day performance plan with activity, submission, conversion, and income goals.
  • Reinforce accountability through weekly rhythm and behavioural commitments.
  • Empower autonomy so the broker begins self‑diagnosing.
Outcomes
  • Broker is stable, structured, and consistent.
  • Performance is trending upward.
  • Capability is built without dependency.
  • Broker feels supported and accountable.

The Turnaround Scorecard By Day 7
  • Clear diagnosis.
  • Weekly rhythm agreed.
  • Broker aligned and engaged.
By Day 14
  • Improved fact‑finds and notes.
  • Faster submissions.
  • 1–2 early wins achieved.
By Day 21
  • Higher activity and more appointments.
  • Deals moving faster.
  • Confidence returning.
By Day 30
  • Consistent behaviour and rhythm.
  • Improved conversion and output.
  • Broker back on a growth trajectory.

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90‑Day Sales Manager Plan

Three phases: Stabilise → Elevate → Accelerate
Phase 1 – Stabilise (Days 1–30)

Goal: Build trust, understand your team, establish rhythm, diagnose performance gaps.

Your Focus
  • Build relationships quickly.
  • Understand each broker’s business.
  • Identify skill, will, and process gaps.
  • Set expectations and structure.
  • Create psychological safety.
Your Actions
  • Run a “First 1:1” with every broker covering goals, strengths, frustrations, pipeline, and support needs.
  • Diagnose each broker by reviewing activity, submission velocity, conversion, notes quality, workflow, and confidence.
  • Establish your weekly rhythm with Monday pipeline reviews, daily follow‑up blocks, Wednesday progression checks, and Friday accountability sessions.
  • Shadow appointments to observe fact‑find quality, rapport, needs analysis, solution positioning, and closing.
  • Provide quick wins such as warm leads, simple refinances, and existing customer reviews.
Success by Day 30
  • Brokers trust you and understand your expectations.
  • You have a clear performance map of your team.
  • Weekly rhythm is established and followed.
  • Early improvements in speed and activity.
  • Underperformers have a 30‑day turnaround plan in motion.

Phase 2 – Elevate (Days 31–60)

Goal: Lift capability, improve workflow, and drive consistent behaviour.

Your Focus

  • Capability uplift.
  • Workflow optimisation.
  • Speed to submission.
  • Consistency in activity.
  • Reducing rework.
Your Actions
  • Deliver targeted capability coaching on fact‑finds, objections, document requests, submission quality, and platform usage.
  • Improve workflow discipline by fixing notes quality, document clarity, deal progression, time in stage, and rework loops.
  • Introduce performance dashboards to help brokers self‑diagnose.
  • Lift the middle performers who often deliver the biggest ROI.
  • Build team culture through wins, peer learning, and recognition.
Success by Day 60
  • Brokers are faster, cleaner, and more confident.
  • Submission quality improves.
  • Activity becomes consistent.
  • Middle performers lift noticeably.
  • Underperformers stabilise or improve.
  • Team culture feels positive and supported.

Phase 3 – Accelerate (Days 61–90)

Goal: Drive high performance, embed accountability, and scale your leadership impact.

Your Focus
  • High‑performance habits.
  • Accountability.
  • Autonomy.
  • Scaling your coaching.
  • Strategic growth.
Your Actions
  • Set 90‑day performance plans for each broker including activity, submissions, conversion, income, and behavioural commitments.
  • Build autonomy by shifting brokers toward self‑diagnosis and proactive planning.
  • Create a high‑performance rhythm with monthly reviews, quarterly planning, peer accountability, and micro‑training.
  • Strengthen top performers with stretch goals, leadership opportunities, complex deals, and visibility.
  • Remove systemic friction by working with credit, ops, tech, and support to streamline broker workflow.
Success by Day 90
  • Team performance is trending upward.
  • Brokers are consistent, confident, and structured.
  • You’re seen as a trusted, capable leader.
  • Underperformers have improved or have clear next steps.
  • Top performers are engaged and growing.
  • The team has a strong rhythm and culture.

Your Leadership Identity

By Day 90, your brokers should describe you as:

  • Supportive
  • Clear
  • Structured
  • Fair
  • Capable
  • Someone who makes them better

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Building Trust with Veteran Brokers

Veteran brokers don’t trust titles — they trust competence, respect, and value.
The goal is to become the person who makes their business stronger, not heavier.


1. Lead with curiosity, not authority

Veterans shut down when they feel “managed”. Start by seeking to understand, not to direct.

  • “Walk me through how you run your business day‑to‑day.”
  • “What’s working well for you right now?”
  • “Where do you feel friction in your workflow?”

This signals respect, not control.


2. Validate their experience

Veterans need to feel seen and respected for what they’ve already built.

  • “You’ve clearly built a strong way of working over the years.”
  • “Your experience is valuable — I want to understand it.”
  • “I’m here to help you win more, not change what’s already working.”

3. Add value early — and specifically

They trust people who make their life easier.

  • Help progress a stuck deal.
  • Clean up messy notes or structure.
  • Speed up a submission or unblock something with credit/ops.
  • Give them a warm, high‑quality lead.

One early win creates instant credibility.


4. Use data to challenge, not opinion

Make it about the work, not the person.

  • “Your conversion from fact‑find to submission is 18%. The team average is 32%. What’s your read on that?”
  • “Your time in stage is double the group. Let’s unpack why.”

5. Ask for their perspective before giving yours

Position them as a partner, not a student.

  • “What do you think is driving that?”
  • “How have you approached this in the past?”
  • “What options do you see here?”

6. Protect their autonomy

Veterans fear micromanagement more than anything.

  • “I’m not here to change your style — I’m here to help you sharpen it.”
  • “You run your business. I’m here to support the parts that slow you down.”

7. Recognise them publicly, coach them privately

Respect their pride while still lifting performance.

  • Public praise: “Shoutout to Sarah — great customer feedback this week.”
  • Private coaching: “Let’s talk about your follow‑up rhythm. I think we can tighten this.”

8. Don’t try to impress them — help them win

They care less about your title and more about outcomes:

  • “Can you help me write more business?”
  • “Can you help me get deals through faster?”
  • “Can you help me earn more?”

9. Be consistent — veterans test new leaders

They will test your boundaries, follow‑through, and standards.

  • If you say you’ll do something, do it.
  • If you set a standard, hold it.
  • If you promise support, deliver it.

Consistency builds trust.


10. Show you’re here to build, not police

Make your intent explicit.

  • “My job is to remove friction so you can focus on customers.”
  • “If something slows you down, I want to know about it.”
  • “I’m here to help you grow your business, not sit over your shoulder.”

Summary

Veteran brokers will follow you if you:

  • Respect their experience.
  • Add real, practical value quickly.
  • Use data, not ego.
  • Protect their autonomy while sharpening their performance.
  • Stay consistent in your words and actions.

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30‑Day Trust‑Building Playbook

30‑Day Trust‑Building Playbook for a new Sales Manager
Week 1 – Listen, Learn, and Signal Respect
1. Run a “First 1:1” with every broker
  • “Walk me through how you run your business day‑to‑day.”
  • “What’s working well for you right now?”
  • “Where do you feel friction?”
  • “What do you need from me to make your life easier?”
2. Shadow their workflow
  • Appointments
  • Follow‑up blocks
  • Submission workflow
3. Validate their experience
  • “You’ve clearly built a strong way of working.”
  • “Your experience is valuable — I want to understand it.”

Week 2 – Add Value Fast
4. Solve one real problem for each broker
  • Progress a stuck deal
  • Clean up notes
  • Speed up a submission
  • Fix a bottleneck with credit or ops
5. Introduce a simple weekly rhythm
  • Monday – Pipeline review
  • Wednesday – Deal progression
  • Friday – Wins and accountability
6. Give them a quick win
  • Warm lead
  • Simple refinance
  • Existing customer review

Week 3 – Coach Without Threatening
7. Use data, not opinion
  • “Your time in stage is double the team average — what’s your read on that?”
  • “Your conversion is strong, but submission velocity is slowing you down.”
8. Ask before advising
  • “What do you think is driving this?”
  • “What options do you see?”
9. Coach privately, praise publicly
  • Public praise for wins
  • Private coaching for improvements

Week 4 – Set Expectations and Show Consistency
10. Set clear expectations
  • Activity
  • Follow‑up
  • Submission speed
  • Notes quality
  • Weekly rhythm
11. Follow through on everything

Veterans test new leaders. Consistency builds trust.

12. Reinforce autonomy
  • “You run your business. I’m here to remove friction.”
  • “I’m here to help you win more, not change what’s already working.”

By Day 30
  • Brokers trust you and open up.
  • Veterans stop testing your boundaries.
  • They follow your rhythm willingly.
  • You’re seen as a partner, not a manager.

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Veteran‑Broker Diagnostic Tool

For Sales Managers working with experienced brokers


Step 1 – Assess the 6 Core Dimensions (Score 1–5)
1. Skill
  • Fact‑find quality
  • Product knowledge
  • Deal structuring
  • Submission quality
2. Will
  • Motivation
  • Energy
  • Ownership
  • Responsiveness
3. Workflow Discipline
  • Notes quality
  • Document requests
  • Time in stage
  • Follow‑up rhythm
4. Speed
  • Follow‑up speed
  • Submission velocity
  • Customer responsiveness
5. Coachability
  • Openness to feedback
  • Willingness to try new approaches
  • Managing ego
6. Business Maturity
  • Pipeline management
  • Forecasting accuracy
  • Self‑diagnosis ability

Step 2 – Identify the Broker Type

Type A – The Weapon (25–30)

Elite operator. Needs stretch goals and leadership opportunities.

Type B – The Workhorse (20–24)

Consistent but plateaued. Needs sharpening and growth targets.

Type C – The Drifter (15–19)

Capable but inconsistent. Needs rhythm and accountability.

Type D – The Legacy Broker (10–14)

Old‑school habits. Needs gentle modernisation and workflow support.

Type E – The At‑Risk Veteran (<10)

Low engagement. Needs confidence rebuilding and structure.


Step 3 – Build Their Personal Leadership Plan
  • Broker type
  • Top strengths
  • Top friction points
  • Your coaching strategy
  • 30‑day goal
  • 90‑day goal

Step 4 – Reassess at Day 30
  • Higher speed
  • Cleaner workflow
  • More consistency
  • Better engagement
  • More openness

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Coaching Scripts for Broker Types

Coaching Scripts for Veteran Broker Types
Type A – The Weapon

Elite operator. High autonomy. High output.

  • Open: “You’re running a strong business. I want to help you scale it.”
  • Frame: “Let’s squeeze more efficiency without adding hours.”
  • Challenge: Improve submission velocity; identify bottlenecks.
  • Reinforce: “You set the standard.”
  • Close: Set one stretch goal.

Type B – The Workhorse

Consistent, reliable, plateaued.

  • Open: “You’re dependable. Let’s get more return for the same effort.”
  • Frame: Small improvements, not overhaul.
  • Challenge: Tighten follow‑up rhythm; reduce time in stage.
  • Reinforce: “You’ve built the foundation.”
  • Close: One improvement for two weeks.

Type C – The Drifter

Capable but inconsistent.

  • Open: “When you’re on, you’re on. Let’s get consistency back.”
  • Frame: Rhythm over effort.
  • Challenge: Identify what breaks their rhythm.
  • Reinforce: “Structure makes you perform.”
  • Close: Run a tight weekly rhythm.

Type D – The Legacy Broker

Old‑school habits. Strong relationships.

  • Open: “You’ve built a great business. I respect it.”
  • Frame: Modernise workflow, not style.
  • Challenge: Improve speed and notes.
  • Reinforce: “I’m removing friction.”
  • Close: One workflow improvement.

Type E – The At‑Risk Veteran

Low engagement, low confidence.

  • Open: “How are you feeling about the business?”
  • Frame: Support, not pressure.
  • Challenge: Identify barriers; rebuild momentum.
  • Reinforce: “You’re not alone.”
  • Close: Simplify for two weeks.

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Full Coaching Playbook

Full Coaching Playbook for All Broker Types
Part 1 – Coaching Philosophy
  • Insight, not instruction
  • Respect first, challenge second
  • Behaviour over stories
  • Short cycles, fast feedback
  • Autonomy with accountability

Part 2 – Universal Coaching Framework
  • Observe
  • Ask
  • Teach
  • Practice
  • Commit
  • Follow‑up

Part 3 – Coaching by Broker Type Type A – The Weapon
  • Needs: stretch, efficiency, partnership
  • Focus: speed, workflow, strategic growth
  • Script: “Let’s scale without adding hours.”
Type B – The Workhorse
  • Needs: sharpening, efficiency
  • Focus: follow‑up, time in stage
  • Script: “Small improvements, big return.”
Type C – The Drifter
  • Needs: structure, accountability
  • Focus: rhythm, consistency
  • Script: “Let’s lock in your best version.”
Type D – The Legacy Broker
  • Needs: respect, gentle modernisation
  • Focus: notes, speed, workflow
  • Script: “Modernise the parts that slow you down.”
Type E – The At‑Risk Veteran
  • Needs: support, confidence, simplicity
  • Focus: quick wins, momentum
  • Script: “Let’s simplify and rebuild.”

Part 4 – 30‑Day Coaching Plan
  • Week 1 – Diagnose
  • Week 2 – Add Value
  • Week 3 – Coach
  • Week 4 – Lock In

Part 5 – Success Indicators
  • Veterans trust you
  • Middle performers lift
  • Drifters stabilise
  • Legacy brokers modernise
  • At‑risk brokers re‑engage
  • Team rhythm is consistent
  • You’re seen as a partner

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